I was never one for experimenting in the bedroom, but recently it seemed that my reluctance to try new things had been slowly fading away. That’s when I found myself asking the poignant question, ‘Am I too loose from using large dildos?’
At first, I was feeling a little apprehensive. After a few weeks of using the larger sized models, I had begun to worry that my vaginal walls had been stretched too far. I’d heard horror stories of women’s ‘bits’ being desensitized due to too much stimulation, and I was definitely feeling some discomfort.
But then I decided to take a step back and reassess the situation. I realized that my anxiety was simply stemming from society’s views on sex dolls toys and the way it was perceived in general. Society is pretty judgmental about women who experiment with their sexuality, and I had gotten caught up in all that.
So, I started doing some research to really gain an understanding of how dildos worked and how to use them safely. I learnt that if used correctly, dildos can be an incredibly exciting experience for both partners. Plus, they also provide a great way to increase sexual pleasure without any strings attached – literally and figuratively!
I also had to remind myself that the internal structure of my vagina would likely not be affected by the use of larger sized dildos. Now, it’s important to keep in mind that sometimes the risk of overstimulation is there, and that’s when it’s best to take a step back and use a smaller size. But aside from that, I felt confident that I was still the same.
Thanks to the research I did, I finally felt a lot more in control of my own sexual exploration. Plus, I also finally had the evidence to back up how beneficial it can be for both partners. So, all in all, I still feel comfortable using large dildos.
The next time I had the chance to use one, I was confident that I was being as safe as possible. I made sure to use the right lubrication and use the smallest size possible to start off with. That way, I could get a feel for what I was comfortable with and make sure not to overstimulate myself.
Overall, I could still say that the use of larger sized dildos hasn’t been detrimental to my sexual health. Rather, it’s opened my mind to different ways of exploring and enjoying my sexuality. I now know what works for me and my partner, and feel much more comfortable in my own skin. So, if you’re considering giving it a try – go for it!