When I first heard someone asking if wanting a dildo in their ass made them gay, I was shocked. It got me thinking about my own sexuality and what that meant for me. Was I gay if I was curious about exploring sex toys? Was I somehow not heterosexual? It was a lot to take in and I had so many questions.
I went online and did some research, and found out that there was still a lot of stigma attached to the idea of people using sex toys, regardless of their sexual orientation. People using them could be seen as promiscuous or as lacking in “desired partner”. Yet, I also found out that there were a lot of people using sex toys, regardless of their sexual orientation.
That’s when I started to think that maybe wanting a dildo in my ass didn’t necessarily make me gay. It was something that was becoming more and more accepted, and more people were starting to experiment with sex toys in general. People were no longer worrying about being labeled as “homosexual” and were instead focused on their own pleasure.
So, sex dolls if I was indeed wanting a dildo in my ass, does that make me gay? The answer is no, it doesn’t. It just means that I’m exploring my sexuality and that I’m open to what I want or don’t want in my sex life. It doesn’t mean that I’m predisposed to a certain sexual orientation. It just means that I’m exploring and learning more about my body and what makes me feel good.
I’m also not alone in my curiosity. It’s become quite common for people to own and use their own sex toys, due to the fact that they can add a new level of pleasure that they may not necessarily get with other avenues of sexual expression. In short, using a sex toy – including a dildo – doesn’t make me gay, it just means I’m comfortable in my own skin and that I’m open to exploring my body and pleasures.
I’m also happy that having a dildo in my ass is becoming less and less of a taboo subject. More and more people are opening up to trying different things that make them feel good and that they can explore their own curiosities without feeling like they have to fit a certain mold. In the end, it’s all about being happy and comfortable in our own skin and exploring without any fear or shame.