First off, you must make sure that you’ve got the materials ready. This includes lube, condoms, towels, and other essential tools. Making sure your dildo and all accessories are within easy reach for when you need them will save a lot of hassle later on! You’ll also want to make sure your dildo is clean and sanitized before you even start anything.
Second, consider getting a toy that is designed for anal penetration. These are usually curved with a flanged base which make them easier to insert and more comfortable than straight dildos. You should also ensure you’re choosing a toy with the right size and width. Get something that’s too big and it could be startling and painful.
Third, make sure you’re in the right frame of mind. Go as slow as you want, don’t force it, and always stop if it starts to become even the slightest bit uncomfortable. Being relaxed will make the process a lot easier for you. And speaking of easing in…
Fourth, don’t forget about the lube! Lube is really important when it comes to anal play. Start by applying some lube to the outside of the dildo, then use more lube to your anus. Make sure to use more lube as you insert the dildo further in and you should always check that the lube is still present.
Fifth, take it slow. Start by putting the tip of the dildo in and gently pushing it in a bit further. Don’t rush – gradually work your way up as you become more comfortable with the feel of it. Once it’s fully in, you can then start to move the dildo in and out. Move in a gentle and controlled rhythm.
And finally, don’t forget to have fun! Take your time and focus on the sensations. Don’t forget to communicate with your partner, too. And if at any point you’re feeling uncomfortable or sore, stop immediately.
Now that you know the basics, it’s time to take the next step. Here are a few more tips to help you with your anal adventures:
First, make sure everything is clean. Clean and sanitize your toys extensively, and always be sure to use a condom if you’re sharing a toy with someone.
Second, don’t forget to warm up. Before you insert anything into your ass, find other ways to make yourself aroused. This can include using lubrication, vibrators, and other sex toys to stimulate the anus area and allow it to relax.
Third, use objects larger than the dildo. You may find using something like a finger or a vibrator easier before trying a dildo. This way, you get more control so your body can get more comfortable with the size.
Fourth, take breaks. If it’s ever too uncomfortable, take a break and allow your body to relax. When you feel ready, you can start over or just take some time to see if the discomfort stops.
Fifth, be gentle. Don’t forget to use plenty of lube and work your way up after you insert. Don’t go fast and try to be mindful of your movements to reduce the uncomfortable sensations.
Finally, don’t forget to experiment. Be mindful of your comfort level but also try out different positions to see which is most pleasurable. This could be doggy style, squatting, or laying on your stomach.
Now that you know the basics, you’ll be able to confidently fit bigger dildos in your ass. Just remember to be mindful of your body and make sure to experiment to find the most pleasurable position. With a little patience and practice, you will become an anal pro in no time!